It's Saturday morning, and I've bounced out of bed, leaving the children still slumbering away happily.
One of the very best things about being sober, the one I never tire of (please excuse the pun!), is sleep.
For at least a decade, I was a terrible sleeper. I would look at the rest of my family, who'd be happily out for the count for hours, and think how do you DO that?
I would get to sleep easily enough, but then I'd wake up at around 3am
tossing and turning and unable to drop off again until about ten minutes before my alarm went off.
I didn't waste that 3am-7am time. Oh no. I used it to beat myself up about my latest misdemeanour, or the things I'd meant to, yet failed to achieve, or the fact that - yet again - I'd drunk way more than I should have the previous evening.
I blamed my insomnia on the inevitable stresses and strains of modern
life.
I tried everything
to cure my lack of sleep – relaxation and meditation, exercise,
aromatherapy pillows and various over-the-counter remedies, but nothing worked.
Then,
I quit drinking and, within a few weeks, I was sleeping like a baby and bouncing
out of bed in the mornings like the Duracell bunny. Miraculous.
There
are several reasons why alcohol has a terrible effect on our sleep.
Firstly,
whilst alcohol initially helps you fall into a deep sleep (which is why I
missed the ends of movies for years), as the alcohol wears off you move out of
deep sleep and into REM sleep, which is much lighter and easier to wake from.
Your
body has to work hard overnight to process all those toxins, which interferes
with the quality of your sleep, causing all that tossing, turning and
restlessness.
Alcohol
is also a diuretic, so after a few drinks you’re likely to wake up in the night
sweating buckets, desperately thirsty and needing a wee.
The
problem with all this lack of sleep isn’t just that it makes us feel a bit
snoozy the next day, it affects everything
– our relationships, our careers, our creativity and our health.
Lack
of sleep is directly correlated to an increased incidence of breast and colon
cancer, and of heart problems. In the days after the clocks spring forward an
hour in March, there is a noticeable increase in reported heart attacks and
road accidents.
Sleep deprivation was deemed to be 'a significant
factor' in the Exxon Valdez wreck, the explosion of the Challenger Space
Shuttle and the nuclear disasters at Chernobyl and Three Mile Island.
Now, we may not be in charge of radio-active materials or a space programme, but you know how lack of sleep makes you unproductive, irritable and more likely to make mistakes.
Of all the benefits being sober brings, for me, getting lots of (great quality) sleep has been one of the best.
It's made me healthier, happier, more creative and has even made me look better (no more eye bags and dull, tired skin).
Now, we may not be in charge of radio-active materials or a space programme, but you know how lack of sleep makes you unproductive, irritable and more likely to make mistakes.
Of all the benefits being sober brings, for me, getting lots of (great quality) sleep has been one of the best.
It's made me healthier, happier, more creative and has even made me look better (no more eye bags and dull, tired skin).
It turns out that I’m not alone in finding that
great sleep can transform your life.
A recent survey by the National Centre for Social
Research found that quality of sleep has by
far the strongest association with wellbeing among those elements of our
lifestyle that we can control. Regularly getting a good night’s sleep makes us
happier than a fifty percent pay rise, spicing up our sex lives or socialising
with friends and family. Whoop whoop!
BUT, be warned, when you first quit you may find getting to sleep tricky. Don't worry, that'll pass. If you’re still having problems dropping off after a few days, try taking a magnesium supplement at bedtime.
I also HUGELY recommend (again) Spacemasks. They are groovy little eye-masks that heat up when you put them on, releasing lovely, sleep-inducing, lavender. Watch out though, they're addictive!
BUT, be warned, when you first quit you may find getting to sleep tricky. Don't worry, that'll pass. If you’re still having problems dropping off after a few days, try taking a magnesium supplement at bedtime.
I also HUGELY recommend (again) Spacemasks. They are groovy little eye-masks that heat up when you put them on, releasing lovely, sleep-inducing, lavender. Watch out though, they're addictive!
So, sleep well my friends, and enjoy that virtual
fifty percent pay rise…
In other news, the lovely Ang75 has set up her own blog. Go girl! Here's a link.
If you've started blogging, or have a favourite blog you'd like to recommend, then please leave a link, or the address, in the comments below. All sharing welcome :-)
For more on the ups and downs of quitting booze, read The Sober Diaries - click here (UK), here (USA) or here (Australia). The Kindle price in the UK has just been reduced to £4.99!
Love to you all,
SM x
If you've started blogging, or have a favourite blog you'd like to recommend, then please leave a link, or the address, in the comments below. All sharing welcome :-)
For more on the ups and downs of quitting booze, read The Sober Diaries - click here (UK), here (USA) or here (Australia). The Kindle price in the UK has just been reduced to £4.99!
Love to you all,
SM x
