(What is a psyche? Maybe I don't have one. If I do, how do I know where to find it?)
It was this question: what would you do if you weren't scared?
At the same time, with curious serendipity, having cleared out the dusty, overflowing cupboard that is my to-do list (see my last post) I was left with two items I could no longer ignore:
1. Get Young Adult novel published
2. Send proposal for book based on blog to Agents
The truth is that what I would do if I were not scared is take my writing seriously, and find a way of making money out of it.
Like many ex-drinkers, after the first few months sober I started to realise what a huge, gaping hole I had in my life.
I'd often find myself (much to the horror of my children) singing along at top volume to The Pogues Fairytale of New York: "I could have been someone!"
(To which the answer is "so could anyone!" Which is true, but unlikely if they're downing more than a bottle of vino a day).
I'd often find myself (much to the horror of my children) singing along at top volume to The Pogues Fairytale of New York: "I could have been someone!"
(To which the answer is "so could anyone!" Which is true, but unlikely if they're downing more than a bottle of vino a day).
However, the reason it's scary is that it's a path paved with endless rejection.
I have an electronic drawer stuffed with rejection letters from over the years.
Usually I send out a half finished project, get a few standard rejections (we receive thousands of submissions each year, and I'm afraid we are not excited enough about your proposal to be able to offer you representation at this stage) then give up (and drink, obvs.)
Usually I send out a half finished project, get a few standard rejections (we receive thousands of submissions each year, and I'm afraid we are not excited enough about your proposal to be able to offer you representation at this stage) then give up (and drink, obvs.)
So now I've decided to use some of the lessons I've learned over the last sixteen months of not drinking and apply them to getting published.
1. I'm going to feel the fear and do it anyway. What have I got to lose? A little pride, perhaps, but nothing else.
2. I'm taking one day at a time. Any task is less scary if you break it down into small chunks.
3. I realise that if I want a different result I'm going to have to do things differently.
4. I'm going to ask for help. One thing the last year has taught me is you're always better off not going it alone.
So, last week I contacted a top literary consultancy, and I have forked out some of the cash I've saved by not drinking to pay for a professional editor to read my novel and give me feedback.
(She sounds amazing - she's had twenty five children's books published worldwide, so she knows what she's talking about).
And, for the last three days I've been getting up at 4am to finish off my proposal for the book of this blog which I'VE FINISHED!
I sent the proposal to four people and asked for their advice: an author friend, a scientist friend, one of my fabulous readers who's become an e-mail friend, and the literary consultant.
And now I feel like Ripley in Aliens, having just incinerated the mother alien and all her little unborn babies.
I AM AWESOME! I AM STRONG! I AM INVINCIBLE! I KICK ASS.
The problem is there's this tiny, irritating little voice whispering in my ear and it says what happens if you do all this and still don't succeed? What happens then?
I don't have the answer to that one.
So, my lovely friends, what would you do if you weren't scared?
Love SM x
P.S. If you've only recently found my blog and want to read from the beginning, then click here.
