Yesterday I had a meeting with my oncologist to go through the results of my blood tests. The key thing they check for is 'tumour markers'.
Their main concern is that some pesky breast cancer cells may have escaped last year's slash and burn procedure and have taken up residence somewhere else - like my bones, brain or lungs. If this happens (which is, in my case, statistically unlikely, thank heavens) I am buggered.
I'm getting better at dealing with these appointments. On previous occasions I've started to freak out several days in advance and have had to take a friend or relative with me to hold me up.
Yesterday I only started falling to bits that morning and I decided to (wo)man up and go on my own.
Yesterday I only started falling to bits that morning and I decided to (wo)man up and go on my own.
I love my oncologist. He's all antipodean and twinkly and frightfully clever. If you have to have someone use the words terminal in front of you (apart from an airline operative), then he's the one you'd choose.
"So," he says, after giving me a bear hug, "how are you doing?"
"Good," I reply while thinking just tell me about the tumour markers. Are my children going to be motherless?
"How's the Tamoxifen? You don't look like you've put on any weight." (I bet he says that to all the girls) "Hot flushes?"
"I get a bit warm sometimes, but at least it saves on heating." I'm trying to read my incomprehensible blood test results up-side down.
"Well," he says, moving his finger painfully slowly down my print-out, "immune system fine...." tumour markers??? "Vitamin D levels normal," what about the tumour markers? "liver function good" ha ha, "cholesterol good" spit it out! "tumour markers normal."
Hurrah ! Hurrah! Hurrah! Looks like I'm going to be around for the immediately foreseeable future, which is great as I have a lot to do.
We move onto the 'manual examination' phase. I have had my breasts fondled more in the last fourteen months than over the entirety of my teenage years. And my boobs were a completely different kettle of fish back then.
(Can one describe one's boobs as a kettle of fish?)
While the Prof is copping a feel I take the opportunity to tell him about the book.
"I thought you should know that I'm writing a book..... and you're kind of in it."
"Really? What's it about?"
"It's about quitting booze, with a little foray into the whole breast cancer thing. I know it sounds dreadfully worthy, but it's actually a black comedy."
The Prof looks rather chuffed and asks for a signed copy.
"How much were you drinking?" He asks.
"Around a bottle of wine a day," I reply. The first time in my life I've been honest about my drinking to a member of the medical establishment.
He looks a little shocked, but rallies quickly. "I'm sure lots of my patients drink that much," he says. Bless him.
"How much were you drinking?" He asks.
"Around a bottle of wine a day," I reply. The first time in my life I've been honest about my drinking to a member of the medical establishment.
He looks a little shocked, but rallies quickly. "I'm sure lots of my patients drink that much," he says. Bless him.
He signs me off for a whole year (although I still have appointments for mammograms and ultrasounds).
I skipped out of the cancer clinic feeling like an escapee from death row.
In the old days I'd have gone straight to a bar. Now, without the masking effects of booze, I realise the real impact that huge stress followed by release has on the body: I felt utterly exhausted.
In the old days I'd have gone straight to a bar. Now, without the masking effects of booze, I realise the real impact that huge stress followed by release has on the body: I felt utterly exhausted.
I picked the kids up from school and, as early as possible, we all piled into my bed, read Harry Potter and went to sleep... at 8.30pm. Result.
Love to you all,
SM x
