tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post947260936154254853..comments2024-03-27T00:48:06.021-07:00Comments on Mummy was a Secret Drinker: 5 things I've discovered after 50 DAYS soberSoberMummyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-53228876207527175742019-11-12T11:07:49.244-08:002019-11-12T11:07:49.244-08:00Read your 50 day mummy post.
I'm not female so...Read your 50 day mummy post.<br />I'm not female so the mummy stuff is lost on me. But your analysis is completely on point. Not in any way reassuring but surprisingly insightful. Thank you for reaching even this Male in such a sympathetic manner.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09424241738679427359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-15668418825643809462019-10-04T00:57:24.288-07:002019-10-04T00:57:24.288-07:00Awesome achievement of 50 days as of the time of t...Awesome achievement of 50 days as of the time of this writing-what looks to be about 4 years ago. I'd be interested to learn where you are in your journey today, October 4, 2019. I am on day 49, and I really understand what you said about the periods of clarity that are fleeting. I am still so foggy and don't know whether I'm coming or going half of the time. It's really depressing, and I sometimes wonder what it's all for. I really hope my mind clears up because I'm a forgetful, confused mess. Keep up the good work, and I enjoyed your writing style and creative word choice.Just Trying to do the Next Right Thinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10196638865548632806noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-2130997304936955152016-11-25T05:14:06.175-08:002016-11-25T05:14:06.175-08:00I am currently on day 5, 50 days seems a long way ...I am currently on day 5, 50 days seems a long way away but I am determined to get there ( just wondering if these comments are anonymous) ?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08591155768724975515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-30817928391876356082015-04-21T01:32:20.804-07:002015-04-21T01:32:20.804-07:00You'll do it this time, Angie! Hugs xxYou'll do it this time, Angie! Hugs xxSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-86885318163629717292015-04-21T01:32:04.395-07:002015-04-21T01:32:04.395-07:00Thanks Wendy! That means a lot, especially from a ...Thanks Wendy! That means a lot, especially from a teacher! I've always loved writing, but it's one of the many things that went by the wayside in favour of drinking ;-). I'm so in awe of your 228 days xxxSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-66453200715685276762015-04-20T17:10:48.705-07:002015-04-20T17:10:48.705-07:00Congrats on 50 days!! That's a wonderful achie...Congrats on 50 days!! That's a wonderful achievement. My longest attempt has been 42 days, I'd love to get to 50. Hopefully The Wall won't be as big as you imagine and you'll be on the other side of it soon. Keep up the good work! A xAngiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07553400229726508527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-34724151000545940372015-04-20T14:41:00.446-07:002015-04-20T14:41:00.446-07:00Nice going, SM!
Keep on! You are a very good write...Nice going, SM!<br />Keep on! You are a very good writer, btw!<br />So true, all.<br />At 228 days, I keep learning.<br />Hugs to you!<br />WendyUntipsyteacherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14975521042875808241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-46604653495269675792015-04-20T14:03:45.730-07:002015-04-20T14:03:45.730-07:00Thanks so much Newleaf, and huge congrats to you! ...Thanks so much Newleaf, and huge congrats to you! It's odd, isn't it, living this double life - I've always been so 'what you see is what you get' until now. Love SM xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-54972686593958229672015-04-20T13:24:11.871-07:002015-04-20T13:24:11.871-07:00Many congratulations sober mummy, such an amazing ...Many congratulations sober mummy, such an amazing achievement. I absolutely love and look forward to reading your blog, it's so inspiring. I'm sitting here feeling very smug that I managed to get through a ladies lunch today without an ounce of wine passing my lips! Lots of mummy's chatting about drinking wine and how it's their treat. Little do they know the inner turmoil I'm (we) are going through. Not ready to utter a word to anyone yet and not sure I ever will be. Keep up the good work xxNewleafhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14009660824281426671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-87753214840566191012015-04-20T12:04:45.137-07:002015-04-20T12:04:45.137-07:00Thanks crazybird! I'm so glad it's helped....Thanks crazybird! I'm so glad it's helped. Good luck - you can do it!!! Love another crazybird xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-78287727234489185602015-04-20T11:54:55.080-07:002015-04-20T11:54:55.080-07:00Hi sober mummy!
I am on my third day one in thre...Hi sober mummy! <br /><br />I am on my third day one in three weeks but am determined to crack it this time! Your blog is fab and has resonated a few chords with me I can tell you! You have made me laugh and cry! Keep up the good work. Crazybirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05974350405983381457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-4083552092950755932015-04-20T11:45:49.886-07:002015-04-20T11:45:49.886-07:00Hi Tallaxo! You're doing great - well done! Dr...Hi Tallaxo! You're doing great - well done! Drinking is my final vice too - apparently multiple addictions are common. I'm worried about what might come next, as I was commenting to Kags - kinky sex? Bingo? Prawn cocktail crisps? My brain is much quicker too - I only wish it would shut up!!! Enjoy the tea xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-5015822632452099862015-04-20T10:38:51.827-07:002015-04-20T10:38:51.827-07:00Hi Rachel! I'd love to review your next book. ...Hi Rachel! I'd love to review your next book. You can mail me on sobermummy@gmail.com. Love SM xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-68771575201080033422015-04-20T10:00:09.867-07:002015-04-20T10:00:09.867-07:0050 days. Wow. On one hand a massive achievement, i...50 days. Wow. On one hand a massive achievement, into new unchartered waters becoming better equipped to deal with it each days.<br />On the other hand, still very much a big dipper style of sober coaster going on. At 7 weeks (49 days!) I felt truly blue. Was this it? What was all the hype about?<br />Alcohol is still at the forefront of your mind yet you are not having any. Ignore the calls, ignore the thoughts and you will find other avenues for your mind to explore. Don't give up.<br /><br />ps I'm looking for people to review my next book before it goes on sale 20th May. Email me if you would like to do so and I'll send you a e-copy. That should occupy your mind for the next few days!<br />soberisthenewrachelblack@gmail.com<br /><br />ps I'm sure there are many readers, most folks 'lurk' but I'm fine with that.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00570384820379369822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-91723571340437319742015-04-20T09:09:37.473-07:002015-04-20T09:09:37.473-07:00CONGRATULATIONS on 50 sober days! That is quite a...CONGRATULATIONS on 50 sober days! That is quite an achievement. You should be very proud of yourself. Thank you also for the birthday wishes. Monday is my busy day. Work sponsors me for day release to study Mechanical Engineering at college, so I dont usually have time to pine for alcohol. I am more concerned with Differentiation and Algebra. But now I am home and it is trigger time.<br />'A Sober Birthday', that is something I dont recall having experienced since about 15 years of age ( I am 44 today). I had some texts today from friends asking, when are we going out? Where are we going? I have made some excuses about having too much homework and too many assignments to hand in this year to celebrate.<br />They must think I am ill, normally I am the last man standing and the life and the soul of the gathering.<br />Having said that, I actually feel pretty good right now, Concepts at college are getting easier for me to comprehend, my memory has vastly improved, I am really noticing a difference in cognitive functioning, I like it!<br />This is my first time in almost 30 years that I am truly sober, with no vice to fall back on. I gave up smoking tobacco 3 years ago and other stuff about a year ago. This is the final piece of the puzzle for me. I must also point out, this has to be absolution for me because moderation is not a word in my vocabulary. That is a scary thought, but one that I have to learn to embrace.<br />Anyway, I am off to celebrate my birthday with a nice cup of tea. Did I just say that?<br />Thank you again SM for the daily dose of inspiration xTallaxohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13386522171119897358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-87048169718202832742015-04-20T08:36:40.467-07:002015-04-20T08:36:40.467-07:00I know what you mean - I am terrified of swapping ...I know what you mean - I am terrified of swapping one addiction for another - first nicotine, then alcohol. What's next? Kinky sex? Bingo? XSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-55750558248419240922015-04-20T08:24:32.905-07:002015-04-20T08:24:32.905-07:00I so didn't have a sweet tooth before crisps a...I so didn't have a sweet tooth before crisps and cheese were my thing !! Now nothing short of a big bar of chocolate and my hot chocolate will hit the<br />Spot !! I guess in 12 months time I will be seeking out sugar addict blogs ;-) Kagshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01968875912702356428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-76077918564359164852015-04-20T05:11:40.134-07:002015-04-20T05:11:40.134-07:00Hi Kags! Thank you! I will be thinking of you, too...Hi Kags! Thank you! I will be thinking of you, too, in a week's time! I know that craving sweet things is HUGELY common, but it is the one thing that I haven't had a huge problem with. I do the nightly hot chocolate and I eat a far bit more fruit, but since about week 3 (the first 3 weeks I ate a lot of cake!) that's about it. I've never had a sweet tooth, though. My thing is ready salted crisps - I could mainline those! SM xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-73907389263715025252015-04-20T05:05:14.922-07:002015-04-20T05:05:14.922-07:00Yay go you !! Fantastic achievement and I'm su...Yay go you !! Fantastic achievement and I'm sure that I voice for many of us followers that as much as we spur you on staying sober your blog is what keeps us all on the straight and narrow too x I can second all of your above points particularly the inner dialogue of not drinking - it has lessened but I too am obsessed with reading about not drinking to the point it could drive me to reaching for a bottle !! But knowing there is this little band of strong and independent non drinkers out there all feeling the same keeps me sane and sober x I will as promised raise a mug of hot chocolate to you later and damn it may even throw in a slice of cake !!! I have to ask as you haven't mentioned it recently do you still have a sweet tooth - I am still craving chocolate and cake like I never have before :-( x x well done sm on hitting the 50 days and being that bit nearer the promised nirvana Kagshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01968875912702356428noreply@blogger.com