tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post8130752048415451730..comments2024-03-27T00:48:06.021-07:00Comments on Mummy was a Secret Drinker: Not the Girl he Married Part 2SoberMummyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-36249798540146304212015-05-06T13:09:12.892-07:002015-05-06T13:09:12.892-07:00Thinking of you LNM! Don't forget, we had bad ...Thinking of you LNM! Don't forget, we had bad days when we were drinking too. It's The Wall. It will be better over the other side..... SM xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-335633697333032882015-05-06T09:27:50.033-07:002015-05-06T09:27:50.033-07:00Thanks SM. I'm really struggling today. Not wi...Thanks SM. I'm really struggling today. Not with wanting a drink, just trying to make sense of it all. xLushNoMorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04018195957277312286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-8062347694436394122015-05-06T04:59:07.969-07:002015-05-06T04:59:07.969-07:00what a great bloke! xwhat a great bloke! xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-66388135488885157642015-05-06T04:58:46.402-07:002015-05-06T04:58:46.402-07:00Hope you're ok Angie - I've just commented...Hope you're ok Angie - I've just commented on your last post. Hugs xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-90166727887877018952015-05-06T04:43:48.679-07:002015-05-06T04:43:48.679-07:00All sharing not only welcome, but actively encoura...All sharing not only welcome, but actively encouraged LNM! Please don't stop! SM xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-53546814835886755382015-05-05T21:07:42.758-07:002015-05-05T21:07:42.758-07:00That put me in my place! I'm new to blogging s...That put me in my place! I'm new to blogging so not sure of the etiquette. Thought we were all on here to support each other.......SM - well done. Those days are clocking up nicely. LNM xLushNoMorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04018195957277312286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-20245162947803525722015-05-05T17:20:51.683-07:002015-05-05T17:20:51.683-07:00Wow, you're brave to ask that!! My husband doe...Wow, you're brave to ask that!! My husband doesn't mind it when I don't drink. In fact, tends to drink less too. He thinks it's admirable when I have my 'breaks' from drinking. But he doesn't think I have a problem, which is my fault because I am not completely honest with him. But this is your blog so I'm not going to go on about that! Congrats on 65 days! A xAngiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07553400229726508527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-48935496346268719952015-05-05T16:14:19.622-07:002015-05-05T16:14:19.622-07:00Dear SM,
My hubby loves me not drinking. He tells ...Dear SM,<br />My hubby loves me not drinking. He tells me all the time.<br />He stopped drinking, not because he has a problem, but to support me.<br />We have way less arguments now!<br />xo<br />WendyUntipsyteacherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14975521042875808241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-88787290525208036662015-05-05T13:48:34.344-07:002015-05-05T13:48:34.344-07:00Hi Newleaf! If I were you I'd clock it up as a...Hi Newleaf! If I were you I'd clock it up as a learning experience and carry on! A tiny blip in the road. But don't do it again! ❤️ Hugs xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-27242799347285880832015-05-05T13:38:47.814-07:002015-05-05T13:38:47.814-07:00Great blog as always SM, made me laugh. Sorry for ...Great blog as always SM, made me laugh. Sorry for not commenting lately. I've had a slight blip, one glass of wine after 5 weeks without grrrrrr! So upset with myself but onwards and upwards. Am I allowed to forget it even happened and carry on as normal? It was only 1 glass. It made me realise that moderation is never going to work for me as I was left wanting more... Happy days :-) Newleafhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14009660824281426671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-75108883728379308522015-05-05T07:56:45.624-07:002015-05-05T07:56:45.624-07:00That was a brave question to ask and your husband ...That was a brave question to ask and your husband must love and respect you a lot to answer.<br />This is a tough one. Fortunately for me, my hubby quit just after me. We had many years of hard drinking fun together. But, honestly, as I began to drink more, so did he. It turned me into a sad, moping, self pitying person. It turned him into an arrogant asshole.<br /><br />Being sober has brought out the best in both of us. Our nights on the couch are so much more pleasant. No one passes out and we can actually discuss life honestly. <br /><br />I don't think anyone likes to have a drunk partner. Drunk people are no where near as witty, funny or smart as they think! Lol<br />Ainsobrietyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15642935819165465190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-9294566662726935852015-05-05T05:58:49.209-07:002015-05-05T05:58:49.209-07:00You know, NW, I've realised that it's only...You know, NW, I've realised that it's only the people with their own drinking issues who really notice - everyone else just thinks 'oh, ok' and moves on! Your heavy drinking friends probably will make a deal of it initially, but once they've had a few drinks they'll completely forget about you not drinking ;-). I still find those kind of occasions hard, though. Will be thinking of you xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-32054789820902730222015-05-05T05:41:11.498-07:002015-05-05T05:41:11.498-07:00Very funny blog today it made me laugh out loud !!...Very funny blog today it made me laugh out loud !! So true are the sentiments ringing in my ears !!!Kagshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01968875912702356428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-4362967144925675852015-05-05T04:41:20.729-07:002015-05-05T04:41:20.729-07:00Loved the topic today SM. I am concerned about how...Loved the topic today SM. I am concerned about how my not drinking will affect those I love.....a before dinner drink with my husband, a glass of wine with a close friend.....I don't want to "kill the mood" by refusing a drink. Thankfully my husband (who has a very healthy relationship w alcohol) has been very supportive, but in a few weeks we are spending the weekend at our mountain home with very dear friends, both heavy drinkers, and I am already dreading their reaction. Not sure how I will handle it. Day 11 :).neinwinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03432419093447903474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-24782643437464804012015-05-05T04:10:22.815-07:002015-05-05T04:10:22.815-07:00Hi Sheila! Thanks so much for commenting! You'...Hi Sheila! Thanks so much for commenting! You've made my day. Well done on 75 days! We can do it together. Please stay in touch. Love SM xSoberMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09149651295183331661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4763877266715908242.post-34552213479970553622015-05-05T03:51:02.596-07:002015-05-05T03:51:02.596-07:00I am really enjoying your blog, I'm 75 days so...I am really enjoying your blog, I'm 75 days sober and can sooo relate to everything you write. Thank you for spending the time writing, I look forward to reading it every morningmythreesons143https://www.blogger.com/profile/12328655335168795593noreply@blogger.com